you misunderstood.

Blueduck told you opinions differing were fine...

what is NOT fine is saying things like:

"well you are just plain ignorant if you can't see what is going on "etc...

rather than saying
"i think you are failing to see what is going on..."

see the difference?

key word, attack the message , but NOT the messenger..
esp not with namecalling slurs

and as always this is a support forum
so that means no mudslinging threads..
that do nothing but name call folks
thus doing nothing to address the posters concern.

you can answer a post with negative concerns
about how it might affect them healthwise,
emotionally, or physically .

you can say "dump the guy ", " he is using you
,
without saying " dump that x x x x
he is just xing you" xcetera lol
and if you can't see that then you are a "X"

i hope this demonstrates the difference.


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Blueduck told you opinions differing were fine...

what is NOT fine is saying things like: well you are just plain ignorant if you can't see what is going on etc...

rather than saying
i think you are failing to see what is goign on...

see the difference?

key word, attack the message , but NOT the messenger..
and as always this is a support forum so that means no mudslinging threads.. that do nothing but name call folks
thus doing nothing to address the posters concern.

youc an answer a post with negative econcerns about how it might affect them health wise, emotionally, physically .
you can say "dump the guy ", " he is using you,
without saying " dump that x x x x
he is just xing you" xcetera lol
and if you can't see that then you are a "X"

i hope this demonstrates the difference.