Paulista,
Don't believe that about men who like gourmet food are a clear indication that they are good lovers. Beleve me, I've known some real gourmands who were LOUSY!
Generalizations like that don't uually work. I do feel for you, I've been there and it wasn't happy.
Be careful about the poster who wans to tell you more, you may get more than an earful..unless that's what you realy want...(?)