Re: pus-e problem :-(

Hey 1139, your partner must be a lucky woman. I live with a man (fiance) who hates to administer oral. No matter how clean and good I look. He just doens't like it, and I have come to think he may not like to give pleasure, to be in a submissive position, or maybe he can't stand the faint smell the area has even when you just took a good detailed shower. He is very picky with food too (won't eat this, doesn't lie that) and I have notices that men who like gourmet food are usually the best lovers. And lastly, my fiance is not athletic, and giving os requires some effort.

So I live without it (sometimes I can convince him to do it-once every 2 years), but it makes me very unhappy. There are not good substitutes out there (toys) that mimic that sucking feeling so well. Have thought of finding a lover but am scared of the consequences (and who would want just top have s with me and nothing else)?
So I admire what you said, about enjoying OS.