you know what....

I wasn't attacking you..or your beliefs... I was debating, because I dont agree with what you are saying...

If you guys think that having sex at 15 will cause a girl to become a p 0 r n star..then you might want to take a serious look at the shame, guilt and belief systems that you have about sex.

I believe your statements are false and come from the way you were raised..... Fear has never worked as a way to shape children... it only creates more fear, confusion and disease...look at our society....

Ignorance is a major problem with sex and sexuality..... Education is the key... teenagers need to be informed about sex, the risks involved and also how to protect themselves from STD's and pregnancy. If they have questions, they should feel safe to ask them, without a bunch of people slamming them about their age, and what they should be doing.....

The reality today is that some kids do have sex.... by 15 you are naturally curious and exploring your sexuality... There is NOTHING wrong with that..... It is proven that those people who are shamed about sex and that are not informed are the ones who end up pregnant most of the time...because they were too scared to buy condoms..or to ask their doctor for advice....

Lets look at africa and the spred of Aids... well those are adults arent they?... but wait... the ridgid religious beliefs dont alow condoms... hmmmmm...well thats just great..so now there are millions of people dying because some guy has decided that its not o.k.....

Please....

I am certainly not saying that teenagers should be having sex.... I am saying that people have choice..... and need to be informed about both pros and cons... but bringing fear and harsh person opinion in just scares them off...

I am so sad to see so many people here with so much judgement..... kids today are different.. they are open and much brighter than past generations... they evolve more quickly and need us to guide them.....not to mold them into little replicas of us or what we think they should be... they need to become their own masterpiece.. and that only comes through personal experience and insight....