innocent til proven guilty

there are so many reasons that could account for every thing you have stated here. for allyou know she had a prvate doc appt and they did a pap smear that day .. in which they use an instrument to widen teh vagina to get a good checkup
you also said you all were walked in on recently/ perhaps she feels ther eis no real private palce that she feels comfortable in righ tnow.. esp if waht she felt was a secure palce before was compromised.
perhaps yo umight plan a weekend together at a nice hotel and not necessarily plan fo rsex bu t fo r soem romance and free breathing room...
maybe where youare at there jstu isn't a tiem frame without other folks around to possibly hear what is going on
that is making her balky.. i knwo it woudl me for sure!!
intimacey has been compromised. and it was with you that it occurred and in a palce shehad felt was a safe privat esettign before.
so you nee dot get her into a diff palce and rebuild that privacy.. with out making her feel liek she has to come up withte goods eitehr.. jstu paln to have a good tiem whether you have sex or not.
it might be a goo dtiem to open up to her aboout yoru fears.. with out beign accusing. jstu say hey i am concerned.. i am feeling vulnerable and i hope you have the integrity to be honest with me outta health persective views that if you aredoign soem thing else that yo uwoudl tell me..
again about the looseness thing women change all teh time/ dry tight inbetween hormaonal phases o fa cycle as youge tclose r to ovulation you get wetter righ tafter a period you are dryer so fell tighter etc..
you might jstu be noticing it more now because you are fearin gthe worst...
coul dit be that she was really gettin gturn edon by wha tyou were doing lol and when you wne tot do that she awas already wet and loose?
*smile8 maybe she evne had a orgasm quietly lol and tha ti snormal after an orgasim too to be looser cause all teh tension is gone/ umm consider too maybe she upgraded her menstraul products if sh euses tampons cause had a larger flow in recnet ones? see you jstu don't know so don't jump to conclusions.
*good luck *
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