What makes a vagina loose? 
phathead
21 y
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My girlfriend and I of the last 2 years have had a great sex life. The last three months or so, her interest has seem to have wained off, and we went from doing it maybe 5+ times a week, to bout once in the last three weeks. occasionally we do play around with toys and such, but she seems more and more uninterested. and today, we happened to be fooling around, I noticed that when i stuck my fingers in her, she was extremely loose. the only times i've ever felt that is after lots of sex w/ her or her using one of our toys. she has no toys for herself, and have been wondering if she's been getting too close to her ex-boyfriend again. my question is, is there another explanation on why she would be loose like this? normally, she's extremely tight unless we've been doing a lot in the past day. and before today, i hadn't touched her in several days. thanx
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- Re: What makes a vagina loose? grog
21 y
65,197
MoreThis is a reply to # 529,480My girlfriend and I of the last 2 years have had a great sex life. The last three months or so, her interest has seem to have wained off, and we went from doing it maybe 5+ times a week, to bout once in the last three weeks. occasionally we do play around with toys and such, but she seems more and more uninterested. and today, we happened to be fooling around, I noticed that when i stuck my fingers in her, she was extremely loose. the only times i've ever felt that is after lots of sex w/ her or her using one of our toys. she has no toys for herself, and have been wondering if she's been getting too close to her ex-boyfriend again. my question is, is there another explanation on why she would be loose like this? normally, she's extremely tight unless we've been doing a lot in the past day. and before today, i hadn't touched her in several days. thanxAdvertisement
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- Re: What makes a vagina loose? phathead
21 y
64,003
This is a reply to # 529,481yes, i know my name is ironic, but i'm looking for some serious answers here.
- Re: What makes a vagina loose? phathead
21 y
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- Re: What makes a vagina loose? SmilingToday
21 y
64,037
This is a reply to # 529,480Hey there! It would seem to me that perhaps your girlfriend has been going elsewhere, or she does have toys that you don't know about. Being a female, I know that they only time I ever get looser is when I have been having sex regularly, or using a vibrator regularly. I don't know of any way that your girlfriend could just become looser, esspecially if you haven't had intercourse with her recently. I wouldn't go and accuse her of anything, though I would pay closer attention. Some things to think of, was she wetter tonight, is she close to menstrating, and you didn't say that you had sex with her, only that you stuck your fingers in her, could any of these be a reason?! Good luck *S*
- Re: What makes a vagina loose? lovefighter
11 y
57,989
This is a reply to # 529,485This is his damn gf and i take care of his stupidass and im with him 24/7 besides when iwork and ia have to work to take care of us and i do a lot for him he must be on drugs bc i dont have i never cheated sorry im not that type of girl..and i dont have toys either like i said i dont believe in having sex every f***ing day to have a relationship.i like to cuddle and love on him everything isnt about sex and i just caught him making another fb behind my back..and he has cheated on me 4 times and i havnt cheated on him not 1 time and i give him all kinds of money so you want to put your 2 since into my relationship telll me what you think now..and he knows mydamn pussy isnt loose unless he f***ed another girl..i have a baby with boy and this shit is f***ed up!!!!Advertisement
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- Re: What makes a vagina loose? lovefighter
11 y
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- If I were you.. athena1
21 y
63,741
This is a reply to # 529,480I'd probably start looking for another girlfriend. It sounds like either your girlfriend is messing around w/someone else or the two of you don't have good communication going that would make her feel comfortable enough to talk w/you about why she's all of a sudden uninterested. Unfortunately, it probably won't get better in the long run.
- Re: What makes a vagina loose? #2343
21 y
64,423
This is a reply to # 529,480i am not entirely sure i agree with the other posts. just because ONE TIME when you fingered your girlfriend and she was loose, totally does not mean she is cheating on you. there could be any number of reasons she is "not interested in sex". try not initiating sex at all and see whether she starts something up. she may just feel not up to it, tired, stressed, feeling unattractive. could be anything. you could try talking to her about it, but just dont do it in an accusatory manner.
- Re: What makes a vagina loose? phathead
21 y
63,904
This is a reply to # 529,497We have been having a great relationship, usually extremely open. i've been a little paranoid at times, but thats because its been so good ya know? normally when we start doing stuff, when i slide my fingers inside of her, its usually very soft and moist and overall tight feeling. when i slid them into her this time, it was very open where i could rotate my fingers around. also, when she was using a toy, she was making what i call a "burping" sound from there, usually only present after lots of sex.
i've tried not doing anything to her, and she doesn't start anything anymore. the last few months have been stressful on other things, but not overly so the last few months. we did get walked in on bout 2 months ago, but it started before that. her ex-boyfriend i know is very well endowed if ya know what i mean, so thats the first thing i thought of when i noticed how loose she was. i think she may be due for her period in about a week or so, but i'm not sure. i just don't know what to do.Advertisement
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- innocent til proven guilty Wrenn
21 y
63,859
This is a reply to # 529,502there are so many reasons that could account for every thing you have stated here. for allyou know she had a prvate doc appt and they did a pap smear that day .. in which they use an instrument to widen teh vagina to get a good checkup
you also said you all were walked in on recently/ perhaps she feels ther eis no real private palce that she feels comfortable in righ tnow.. esp if waht she felt was a secure palce before was compromised.
perhaps yo umight plan a weekend together at a nice hotel and not necessarily plan fo rsex bu t fo r soem romance and free breathing room...
maybe where youare at there jstu isn't a tiem frame without other folks around to possibly hear what is going on
that is making her balky.. i knwo it woudl me for sure!!
intimacey has been compromised. and it was with you that it occurred and in a palce shehad felt was a safe privat esettign before.
so you nee dot get her into a diff palce and rebuild that privacy.. with out making her feel liek she has to come up withte goods eitehr.. jstu paln to have a good tiem whether you have sex or not.
it might be a goo dtiem to open up to her aboout yoru fears.. with out beign accusing. jstu say hey i am concerned.. i am feeling vulnerable and i hope you have the integrity to be honest with me outta health persective views that if you aredoign soem thing else that yo uwoudl tell me..
again about the looseness thing women change all teh time/ dry tight inbetween hormaonal phases o fa cycle as youge tclose r to ovulation you get wetter righ tafter a period you are dryer so fell tighter etc..
you might jstu be noticing it more now because you are fearin gthe worst...
coul dit be that she was really gettin gturn edon by wha tyou were doing lol and when you wne tot do that she awas already wet and loose?
*smile8 maybe she evne had a orgasm quietly lol and tha ti snormal after an orgasim too to be looser cause all teh tension is gone/ umm consider too maybe she upgraded her menstraul products if sh euses tampons cause had a larger flow in recnet ones? see you jstu don't know so don't jump to conclusions.
*good luck *
Ami B.- Re: innocent til proven guilty phathead
21 y
63,622
This is a reply to # 529,509i know she didn't have a doctors appt, because i had been with her the previous few days. she has had a bit of a bed wetting problem at nite, due to a bad childhood, so when i got to her house early that morning, she insisted that she change the sheets and take a shower. i dunno if its due to that, which makes sense, or the other thing.
we hadn't done anything prior to me sticking my fingers in her. so i don't think she would be overly stimulated.- Re: innocent til proven guilty Wrenn
21 y
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ok. but again you are focusing on the physical when really your problem is you don't trust her and also youare forgetting that she may jstu be feeling blky from having intimacey compromised.
reread my post.. share with her your concerns over her talking to or meetign with her ex.
it is a valid one be nice.
when i very first got married (ouch has it been so long ago..) my (then ) husbands ex wanted to get with him for many odd reasons and often aske dhim to meet her alone.
i came righ tout/ hey if she needs this or that youtell her coem here and get it.. sheis on left it here...
and it doesn t look good to others to see you in public alone with ex when they know youare newly married to me.
i amd eit clear.. any interactiosn with his ex i wanted doen with openly and with me.. i had no porblems with her...
as far as i was concerned/ just simply come and get them we will both be here at x time and have it ready for you .
amzing ho wquickly she stoppped asking for minor littel things to be brought to her...
you coudl do the same... hey np if wan tto talk to ex, lets go together... stand your ground. if they need private time
take along a friend and have a picnic.. and tha twya she can talk with himwhatever it is/ and your presence will stillb e there..
now .. if she is not willing to do that.. hen i would reconsider that here may be soem thing to hide.
she has made a comitment in a way to you . and you should be her #1 priority not her ex. he is a bog boy / if he needs help sortign stuff out/ then he needs tak eit elsewhere.. he is dishonoring your relationship to start with by askign to see her or carrying on tiem spent with her which shoudl be time with you or her other personal friends. he may be confusing her and jstu fo rhis own ego sake tryign to get her back just to prove to himself that he can.. soem guys are lik ethat. next time she goes to see him/ pullon a coat and smile nice and say i'd liek to coem along i need tiem with youand a breahter form ehre anyhow, let s go grab a take out meal and bring it along np..
act liek tehre is nothign wron gin wah tyouare suggestions or tha tyouare even suspicious/ if she gets weird and balks and nervous and hems haws then i would say hmmmmmmm (things that make you go hmmmm? )- ps/toys Wrenn
21 y
63,867
This is a reply to # 529,528please.. she has no toys of her own? lol
how doyou know that?
folsk can be imaginative.. and anyhow.. evne if she is releiveign her sexual tnesion in other ways doe snot mean sh eis unfaith ful to you ... sex is a natural
tension reliever and she maybe feelign veyr presured by you and her ex and in a state of confusion herslef/
don't driv eher away by overactive jealously or accusatory displays youmight later regret.
- ps/toys Wrenn
21 y
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- Re: innocent til proven guilty Wrenn
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- Re: innocent til proven guilty phathead
21 y
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- innocent til proven guilty Wrenn
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- Re: What makes a vagina loose? phathead
21 y
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- Re: What makes a vagina loose? LuiseGerwig
8 y
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This is a reply to # 529,480I bought myotaut serum cause i looking for tightening my pussy and it told Will helping as repairing about childbirth ! Yes it just my first bottle , i feel good and it's make my pussy so clean and healthy.
- Re: What makes a vagina loose? Eleanor548
8 y
26,328
This is a reply to # 529,480I think your girl frind might be used Myotaut serum for maintaining the tightness. That's what you felt too much tightness while you had before. May be she left to using myotaut serum for some reasons. So you could felt the differences.
- Re: What makes a vagina loose? grog
21 y
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