Aha! I just rechecked and I DID read that Self Value post you
posted for Mom on the Astro forum.
Totally forgot about it, but now that I re-read it, I remember thinking:
Yep, this is why I feel so confident with my relationships (or lack thereof) lately, because I'm feeling so connected to my inner self- I feel like I have all my emotional NEEDS met, so connecting with others is just icing on the cake (as opposed to a desperate search for something undefinable, and terrible pain of even the slightest rejection, which was my old way).