rabbitears: there's no way I'm talking parasites with guys I'm dating!.....unless I don't like them and prefer they make a quick exit, Ha! I have got a plan though. When it gets serious and we start inviting each other over for dinners I'm going to make sure my meals contain ample amounts of garlic and peppers. Hopefully he'll like my strong homemade pineapple/ginger jam and pomegranate juice for breakfast. When watching a dvd together and he sees me grazing on pumpkin seeds, I'll be praying he'll ask for some too ; ) Sneaky? Yes, but it's all good baby....all good.....