It's not ofton{tho it can be}the womans fault if the man has this problem with perversion.I think Beenthere was just bringing up possable reasons.Pot could be responsable for lower sex drive!Therefore he needs something WHEREOUT THERE so to speak to be able to really get off.{sorry about being so graffic}.Don't you gal's blame yourselves.But to lifesux,I'm not sure if denying him loving is all that good of an idea.God says hour bodies belong to each other.You don't want to push him into another womans arms now,do you.But your behavior and anger is very understandable.Why don't you try some of the ideas gethealhty did with her man!You know,being very sexy and seductive and have some fun exsperimenting in bed.The bed of a married couple is undefiled.Are you a little uptight?I'm not trying to hurt you honey,just some suggestions from an old timer.I don't mean bringing sex aides into the bed or the like.JUst spice it up!When I was pregnant I was pretty much horny{sorry}most of the time.Have u tried that?God will have to deliver him from this.I may be giving bad advice here.Just trying to help.I'm not thinking u'r at fault at all.But I don't think depriving him of the marital bed is wise hon.We'll all be lifting this up in prayer for his deliverance.Keep us informed.Love in our Lord,Dot.