Because all authorities have been instituted by God (Romans 13:1) and I respect their courage and devotion to duty, I may (just may) have been overzealous, but, you're right, this is a prayer forum, not a Godly grief forum. A person can only repent when they know they should. Our obligation to let them know is a moral one (to them) and an act of love (that they may someday know Jesus in truth and spirit). That is my prayer for him. What he is doing, is for his ego, not for God. Rebuke is not hate.