Hi Dot, I think you can take it easy, my friend, you didn't say anything harsh at all. (smile)
This person is apparently just misguided, he means well, but needs to understand what working for the Lord is and what it's not. I think everyone here has done a great job in explaining to him. Now I know we can all agree in prayer for his deliverance from fear as well as his spiritual growth.
It's good to have you back Dot, it brings spice and activity to this forum! ;-]
We pray for your speedy recovery and for God to meet all your needs. Lots of love to you and Gene, and may you be kept in the perfect peace that surpasses all understanding.
Love,
Ali