Only you can decide what you want to do, but it sounds like you are opposed to surgery without trying the natural remedies first, and I think you'll be ever so glad later on! My sister had her GB removed and she still has problems. I, on the other hand, am working through dietary changes and other remedies. I think you'll find great support at this website, and many different methods to try. You are sure to find something that suits you. Most of us here agree that the flushes produce better health, even if some of us have stubborn stones.
Congratulations on taking responsibility for your own health and not letting the doctor decide for you!