Xanax is one of the most incideous hideous drugs the pharmaceutical companies ever stewed up! It should be as illegal as crystal meth! I would tell you to get off it as fast as possible but even the pdr warns of the dangers of withdrawal sometimes inducing a coma even when weaning off them too fast! I would get a different doctor and one who will help you get off these terrible poison pills!
And yes you are exhibiting all the sympytons of addiction ! Get help! But take your time and do it right dont panic and make sure the doctor you find really understands the dangers of XanaX !!!