yea, sounds like you have an issue with recurrent yeast infections and the condoms could be triggering it. I had a roomate that had the same issue, I noticed everytime she brought a guy home a couple of days later she was miserable with a yeast infection. I have never had one so I couldn't sympathize with what she was feeling, but I am a medical assistant and your symptoms do not sounds like herpes to me. Keep us posted on what you find out as far as the test results. Hope you feel better! :-)