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Re: Relationship question
You must have read it incorrectly. My words were "check in verbally or watch behavior." My point is I'll let it go unless something seems off.
Your comments about my first marriage were rather rude. You really don't know much about that situation. That person lied to me from day one (and btw lied to many of his own friends, etc.). I was young and very naive and didn't demand much from him at all. I've come to a place of forgiveness and grace about that situation, but also don't want to be completely naive again. Your comments were really unfounded.
Yep, I have baggage about spending money in a relationship (had an extremely controlling father). I wish your "get over it" suggestion was a magic wand that promped healing, but it doesn't always work that way. I am working on it. Being put down on a forum where people go to heal is not what one expects.
I was reaching out from genuine concern not as some controlling mother-type. You're pretty much off base, but hey you tried.