Re: Need Advice Please!(Very Long)

Hi

I've just been browsing the internet trying to find some stuff to read about after my girlfriend left me on Tuesday...I was a single dad for a year before we got together and she made my life complete and I loved her more than anything else in the world (i still do), along with my daughter. Only 4 months ago we bought a house together and moved in. Now she is gone and I'm left with a hefty mortgage to pay and the weight of looking after my daughter on my own again. I just wanted to post this message because everything i've been reading in this thread I can relate to. About a month after we moved in together she became distant, started going out a lot more, critisizing me, paying less attention to me, my daughter, the house, not bothering to do any housework at all and not wanting to have sex with me. I knew something was up. Turns out she was too young and not ready to settle down into this kind of relationship, but it took her a few months to finally tell me it was over. It was like she was treating me really, really badly and she made me extremely depressed and confused. She became a completely different person almost overnight. She was trying to think of ways to justify the way she felt by putting me down and critisizing me and making me hate her in the process, probably to make it easier for her to leave me. I now have zero self esteem and zero confidence. She's battered me down into the ground and made me feel like a worthless piece of dirt. It's really hard because the last couple of months I had been spending lots of money on her, showing her so much love and attention but it was all a one way thing and it almost drove me to madness. I hated the person she became. But I still love her even though I know she's not coming back. Anyway, I could blabber on for ages, just thought I would share my thoughts on this subject, as I'm going through a similar kind of thing. Tweet