Your message makes me very sad. I agree totally with the two responses before. You are young and looking for love in the wrong place. Every man who is trying to get a girl sweet talks her until she gives in. DOn't you yhink he did that to his girlfriend? Perhaps she knows that this is not the first time and she's afraid to comfront him because she feels trapped.
I agree that you need to get another job and away from this man. Everything he tells you is complete hogwash, trust us on this!
So you need to get away before you cause yourself and this other girl anymore pain. Just think, at least you are still in a situation where you can run and get free of it, but the other one can't so easily.
Sounds like you need some good counseling and back-up at this time. Look in a church or women's group for someone with whom you can talk. This is very important because no one can go at it alone and you need some guidance so that you can learn to make the right choices for your life.
Love,
alikat