Thank you for your message in response to soem of the comments you have made I'd like you to know that I am very very tight. And thats why I think I have problems. I have been told many times by many guys that they think I'm a snob. As fo rthe chap I was talking about in that email I have been in touch with him since the end of last year, but I find that most chaps my age just don't make the effort and they don't know how to. Sinc ethen I have met him again but have decided not to persue it.
Yes you are right what ty pe of guy am I expecting to make the effort? That I don't know. But I am choosy and picky and thats why it frustrates me that when I do choose a guy he doesn't make the effort.