Young Free + Single (So why do guys not make the effort?)

Hey I've just come out of a 5 year relationship that got abusive verbally. He left me feeling like shit and my confidence was on a all time low. I'm fine now and I now that I look good and feel good.

I have been pulling left right and centre, and I'm loving it. I met this one particular guy end of last year and we have been in touch since.

I see him approx once a month. When I met him we had a hot passionate snog and it was great but I was nervous because I had only recently come out of the relationship.

Well I met him yesterday and again we are attracted to eachother and things got very hot and I wouldn't have minnded except we were in his car.

The thing is before he did make the effort with me but I thing a blow him out because I was so confused about my previous relationship. But he doesn't make much of an effort with me now and I'd like him to.

So yesterday I sent him a txt saying that i'm interested I'm not sure if you r. But basically the ball is in his court, and I made a point of saying no stress as my ex bf caused my so many headaches.

So what do I do. Iasked him if he wanted to hook up tonight and I'm thinkin that if he contacts me then great if he doesn't then I might blow him out. HELP! I really want to chill with this guy but I'm not sure what he wants now and whether he can respect me by making the effort. Like JayZ said respect the one your humpin' just like your loved one.

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