Re: Young Free + Single (So why do guys not make the effort?)

What guys are you looking for to make the effort? Are you sure that you are worthy of an effort from a guy, in the way you want? If you want pizza and beer, go out to a club, bar, or bowling alley tonight. What more do you want? You need a man to love you, you...and only you. Do you think for a moment that any man would spill over his whole being to female for a few hours of sex, kissing, hugging and such? I once met a girl that (later found out was the sis of my g-friends' friend) I was decent to, bought pizza, beer, a ride, met her friends, took her home, kissed her nighty night, made sure she was safely in her house and then I drove home. She was very presistant at letting me know that she was mine now....mind you, I kissed her nighty night as I would my mom or sis. How is it, that some females become so attached to a male, just by spending a few hours together. What I always would want to do, is to hunt down, capture, and use every lil' trick in the unwritten book to "keep" that lil' gal interested, and wanting more. But, I'm just a guy....what do I know? If you live in an area where there is loose e-z girlz, then be different....be tight, be choosy, be a snob! You will have guyz falling in front of you on their knees....If your peers are tight, well don't be loose with yourself, be the tightest, and precise of who you date, and be a total woman. Educate yourself constantly, grow a garden, cook the growth, and feast with a decent guy that can see your efforts for what they are. Don't give in to a "guy" that you like once in a while, hey, think about those three lil' babies in your future....once in awhile doesn't cut it. Keep your chin up young lady... Tweet