Re: 26 and never had a boyfriend...why can't I fall in love?

Dear Hilfesuchend
Sometimes you are lonely because your mind has traveled and your experience is wide therefore living in one place becomes ‘stale’ after a while because you have been to places..too many pros and cons. We you travel and ready to absorb world views and then you get back to normal society and friends who look comforting because you wish somehow to share this kind of life, permanent friends and places to go..you dive into it but soon realized it is not YOU. That makes you lonely. That makes you searching… yet you don’t know what you are searching for.

Those who become buddies with you accept you as one of them, therefore they won’t think of you in any sexual terms and even if they do, it is taboo. They cannot handle that. I had so many ‘boyfriends’ who were my buddies and dragged me everywhere with them where guys hang out and they talked freely in front of me. Made me feel so unattractive but I guess I accepted that because there is nothing I can do to change that scene.

It would be great for you to look into yourself and having a third party to assess you would be a good option. Take care there. There are a lot of interesting people out there and before you know it, you are flying with the rainbows…

Good wishes,
passionforliving
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