Am i being unreasonable or has my girlfriend took the hump?

Today she wrote me a nice love letter, now its her cousins 21st this weekend.

I cant stand her cousin as shes horrible, she slags my girlfriend off, she says she hates my guts, and if my girlfriend goes out bowling or wherever with her best mate and her, her cousin will text this mate and tell her she doesnt want me coming.

Now ive been invited to this party, my girlfriend wants to show me off to the rest of her family.

But i do not want to go, cause i feel her cousin is only doing it for attention, 'everyone look at me im 21'. etc etc.

And why should i put myself out for someone who slags me off and my girlfriend.

I text my other half at lunchtime and said thanks for letter, how are you, miss you etc.

she text back etc, and said her cousin asked if i was coming to the party.

To which i text back 'Tell her to f*** off, or just tell her im working'. At the end of my expletive i put a smiley face as im not that nasty to say that.

I even text her telling her i was joking straight away, and just to tell her im working and need the money.

Okay shes lying to her but i cant expect her to tell her cousin im not going for other reasons.

She knows how i feel about her cousin and she and her mate dont like her much either as shes mardy etc.

Now ive been to work tonight and i always get a text of my girlfriend, but tonight i didnt have one, she didnt even text me back to acknowledge the fact that im not going to the party.

Personally i think shes got the hump about it.

I might just let her get on with it.

Its not like her at all, but then again i went downstairs last week to watch tv (first time id done it) cause i couldnt sleep and she got the impression we had fallen out and wasnt sure if she loved me anymore (she was drunk at the time, and has now said sorry) all over this party thing.

I just got to p****d off that i went downstairs, i just wanted to avoid an arguement.

I dont know what to think, and im not going to text her, ill just let her get on with it and see what happens.

Or am i being silly?





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