I had to work late tonight, and guess what? I came home to scrambled eggs and bacon - yep he cooked for all of us. He also helped with the washing up. Sometimes when you feel like the world's on your shoulders, you don't realise that a kind word to those around helps to lessen the burden. I've tried to be nicer and not so stuck on the 'poor me' thing. Everyone else is also happier. Thanks again for your support.