Hi, I've been married for 15 years. My husband is kind, loving, funny. But. I seem to have to do everything. We both work full time and have kids at school. I'm the one who has to mow the lawn, paint the house, cook, clean, wash iron you name it, I do it. My husband does little things, like gets the groceries sometimes. I'm just worn out. I sometimes just sit and cry because I'm so tired, and there's still so much to do. Sometimes I get really angry, and so, they all know how I feel. But it passes and I keep doing all the stuff, because if I didn't no-one would be fed or clothed in clean clothes. I don't want him to do much, because he does have a 'bad back', so I'm happy to do the tougher things. But anytime that he does help - tidying up, for example it's because he is really angry at the mess and goes stomping around and makes everyone feel uncomfortable, then I get upset and try to help and smooth it over. And as for making love, well I'm just so tired, finishing the housework after 11pm most nights, that I just fall asleep. And then of course, I feel guilty because I think he thinks that we don't make love often enough. So, then I make a point of staying up longer, and then it's 1am when we go to sleep which just makes me more tired.

Any advice?