Please help

I assume that you've tried talking to your husband or it is difficult to explain to him how tough it is for you to manage everything at work and at home. If both failed, maybe you've taken on too much workload over the years that conditioned him to be lazy and starts taking advantage of you. Maybe in a subtle way, for instance, if he never does the laundry, you can say, "I am very tired, would you please help do the laundry every Monday night from now on?" Then, as he picks up this chore, you add another chore for him to do on a regularly basis. If you give him too much at once, he might object to it. Or try talking to your husband when you are not tired and angry, but in a good state. Tweet