Separating

Hi=)

So this weekend right before valentines day "no better time than the present" his words. MY husband of 7 years told me he is moving out back to his parents and doesn't want to be with me at this point in his life. I just alwasy assumed that we would work it out together, we have 2 children. I cried myself silly yesterday and wondered how I was going to deal with such pain.I woke up this AM feeling a bit stronger, placing my two feet back on the ground and trying to pull myself off the ground. He says that this is my time to show him I love him when he's gone (what?) anyway. I am 27 , him 30.. I know I cannot beg someone to stay, even though I made the biggest mistake and did..oopps really bad moment of weakness. I have never been through this and I would love for someone to give me some insight on what might becoming in the next few months. Does it get easier? I mean I know that every case and feelings are different, but after a seperation what are the odds that he comes back. I am so embarressed to tell people we are seperating. I am not a single mom, how do I do this....I was just wondering if he needs a break, is it possible for him to want me again..how long do you wait to file divorce how long do you give it..I am just so confused and lost and I would love help from someone who has been through it.

thanks
Melanie Tweet