Wow... I mean wow. Did you even read my response? I took some time out to give you a lengthy, serious, and I hope helpful reply. Then you didn't even comment on the concept of taking charge of the abuse situation at the AA meeting. Your just wrote 50 thousand more lines of text about complaints with relationships with people.
Sorry but this is way out of my league. I think you need to see a counselor. Sorry I don't mean this in a condescending way, or am looking down or anything. Just don't know what else to tell you for now. When I have time I will read your responses, I just skimmed cause it's pretty overwhelming.