Yes i am 31 and this is my second go round and worst experience. I have a large grape sized cyst in my left labia. The first time i had it cut after three days of pain i had it lanced and a gauze put in that was ten years ago. Now i have a new one . very uninvited. Wow i went to the er and the nurse practitioner had no real knowledge of what to do. She left the wound wide open and did not allow it to drain. After cutting me three different times and then squeezing me so badly i cried. After i recovered from crying she told me i could put my clothes back on without so much as offering me a sanitary pad. My experience was horrible. To top it off she hadnt lanced the spot correctly the abcess got bigger . and now i realize that the intense pain after the lancing was probably her squeezing the abcess to try to pop it. And now the most painful part is the scar she left .i have tried sitz baths antibiotocs and just started on serrapeptase. I sooo want to try silica and am planning to go to gnc tommorow. But yes i had a frosty last week after not having them in years . i agree .