Desperate for help with metastasised melanoma and Lugol's.

Hello....
Please can someone who is very knowledgable on Iodine and cancer reply and give me some advice? I would very much appreciate it.
I have metastasised melanoma. I have refused ALL conventional treatment - so have had no lymph node dissection or any drugs. It has spread to my lymph nodes and I am getting more tiny raised nodes appearing all the time.
I was diagnosed 8 months ago and since then have been trying to treat myself holistically using carrot juice, coffee enemas, olive leaf, Father Zago Aloe, Curcumin and Green Tea extract, Cottage Cheese and Fkax Oil along with fresh ground flax seeds... and other things..... and cutting carbs and all Sugar but have very recently added in Lugol's 5%. I am taking 100 mg in split doses and also taking 400 mcg Selenium 600 mg Magnesium orally, plus using transdermal Magnesium chloride and taking at least 3g Vitamin C throughout the day.
I have had more lymph nodes enlarge since starting the Lugol's. I feel time is running out for me, fast.
I have had some effects from taking the Lugol's - my boobs hurts and then stop, then start again, my urine has smelt of chlorine (ammonia?) and last night I felt as though I was becoming really ill with aches and a flushed face. This only lasted a few hours and I felt really good this morning.
Is this detox? How do I know I'm absorbing the iodine?
Does anyone have any advice for me - I don't want to die. I'm 44. I just found the love of my life this year and married him. I waited so long to find him.
How long does Iodine take toward on cancer?
Has anyone with Melanoma that has spread to lymph nodes had success with Iodine incorporated into a protocol of other cancer fighting/immune boosting protocol?
I don't have the money to add in more things to what I'm already doing - I know there are hundreds of cancer fighting things out there - but I can't keep adding stuff in the hope it might help. Iodine seems logical - my mother died of Breast Cancer and the more I read about iodine, it seems that her myriad of health problems she suffered before getting cancer (all of which baffled many doctors) may have been iodine deficiency.
I am looking for hope here and a realistic idea, if possible, of how long it might take to work and how high a dose I need to be taking.
Please, please, someone help me.
Thank you.