Re: Slander by an adult child against the family that spoiled her?

the sins of the parents fall on the kids according to the bible. its not her fault she was raised spoiled, but remember the meaning of life is making sure your children have better lives than you did, so her being spoiled is only a sin if you think it is.

i'd say forgive her so she won't be angry anymore, if you still want a relationship with your daughter. she only hurt your feelings because she felt she was hurt by you. she is a human being just as you are, and a direct reflection of you.

humble yourself and make the first move of compassion, if not then leave things bitter.

both the parents and adult children suffer in the latter choice, and the cycle of not forgiving, anger, and bitterness, continues when her children hurt her feelings later on when you are in heaven, and she sees them as you see her now..

set an example of love that she can learn from and if not for her sake, for your future grandchildren and the legacy of your family.

lastly forgiveness never means allowing yourself to be hurt now or in the future, it means to move on from being hurt in the past.

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