I agree with InCharge - people have a right to make their own decisions w/o being hammered with the pig-headed views of a motor-mouthed few.
You said: my only agenda is to help provide a safe atmosphere for people to discuss
Yet, there is no evidence of this in your posts. The level of hostility and mean-spiritedness the parasite forum has reached doesn't even fit the situation. Lots of misplaced anger and bitterness. A new person would think it was toddlers doing the posting. Grow up!!
Some of you people are in need of serious intervention. Google "psychiatric care" for listings in your area.