I had a mother who had Narcissistic Personality Disorder. She was an expert. So I can spot the behaviours now.
I wanted to blast this poster ages ago but I knew others on the forum would see me as being cruel. They would not be well versed in the manipulation or the BS.
I also did not want to make assumptions and gave a sufferer the benefit of the doubt.
She has now proven what her motivations are for all to see.