Re: Seek options for your OWN well-being

I've been contemplating your concerns.  I want to suggest that, insurance aside, there are many counseling therapists that work on (you've heard the term, I'm sure) a "sliding scale," and this is just one option.  There might be support groups that meet, at no cost. 

As a strict aside, are there any issues of substance abuse, or domestic abuse?  The reason that I throw this out there is because both can involve addictions, and it might be helpful for you to be aware of this.  With people (men and women) who present anger management issues, domestic abuse often is present, as well.  For purposes of consideration, all forms of non-physical abuse are more insidious and damanging than being punched in the face because a victim can't point at their feelings and say, "See that?  My partner's words did that to my feelings!"  It's a SILENT and UNSEEN form of "violence," so to speak.

So, it comes down to what's a necessity for you.  What's more valuable to you?  Your own emotional well-being, or your savings?  Now, that question is not intended to read as harsh, flippant, or belittling, by any stretch of the imagination - online "discussions" lack visual, verbal, and audio information that helps us to interpret.  The point of the question is to suggest to you that "digging into" your savings might be well worth your own sanity. 

Brightest blessings to you on your journey.