Ur husbands family are grandiose npd. Reading ur story i can see u r a strong woman. I m so happy for u that ur husband was not a npd himself n he was willing to get jelp. I have never shared my story n i am still not free... I wld like to share my story in hopes that it may help someone else. I m 56 and i have been dealing with this cruel, pathological nothing for 38 yrs. I will have to finish my story at a later date. I have to run out. But God Bless U.