Re: Anyone else haunted by obsessed ex?

PeacePlease7, I'm very sorry that you've had such awful experiences. 

The "reason" that spaths get such a kick out of abusing the legal system for their own entertainment is because their victim targets react so perfectly to their designs.  It's not that we want to react, but long-term traumatization creates a host of behavioral and emotional issues that can cause us, the survivors, to appear as if we are the ones who are disordered because we "feel" invalidated, dehumanized, and experience an emotional "critical mass" with the barrage of continued trauma.

A couple of websites for you to visit that discuss just these issues:

www.familyarrested.com

www.180rule.com

Read some of the articles and responses.  There's a wealth of validation and support on both sites for those who are working towards recovery, or are well into their recovery/healing processes.