Re: Anyone else haunted by obsessed ex?

Thank you for your heartfelt support & advice. While I truly appreciate your wisdom, have basically done all of it! Somehow he is always several steps ahead of me. I am no longer a "victim" but grow weary of fighting the good fight. I have 2 amazing therapists! I can't have no contact since we have 2 girls together, my youngest has recently moved in with him. I have had 4 seperate bank accounts at 4 different banks. Same number of cell phones-"go phones" thought to be safe, wrong again! Have had locks changed, new email accounts, several different po boxes...to no avail. No point in changing ss#..he is head of HR, inputs/controls info. to my health insurance/ prescriptions..he has direct access & changes addresses, contact #, prior authorization for medicine, to name a few. Since I have cobra(very $$)my account is still linked to his! I have attempted to get assistance thru anthem...I can't even have access to the agent who handles his works plan! I can't even begin to describe the living hell this has been. Police say not their problem.."not criminal" a civil matter! Tried to get another restraining order...no lawyer will touch my case.the courts don't understand cyberstalking & I will appear"paranoid"! Plus I have no $ left after the 5 year divorce & 3 brain surgeries. I am getting a migraine thinking about what he has gotten away with! So thanks. I just needed to vent. The details are too invidious to discuss. Thanks for your kind words. I am grateful. Tweet