Re: Husband is scheduled for vasectomy and I'm panicking!

I have no advice I need some! My husband wants to get a vasectomy. I'm panicking about it bc I don't want it done! I'm almost 24 and he is almost 26. We have two beautiful children 3yo boy and 17 mo girl. I know it's the perfect set but I never wanted just two kids. He is sure he wants no more. Idk what to do!! I'm scared to say how I truly feel about it bc we are having some problems. He isn't happy but wants to do whatever it takes to make it better and work on our relationship. He loves me very much and isn't sure why he feels that way. Having the kids I think we have lost our spark bc we never have anytime for us. I'm scared to say what I feel about it bc I'm scared it will push him away or change his mind about making things work. Help please!!! I'm freaking out! I feel so sick I'm stressing about it. Tweet