similar happened to me by an uncle 10 years older. started as wrestling as wwe style then progressed to touching. as a 10 year old i thought it was "fun" play. everytime he stayed with me it went further until oral and the butt play started. it lasted about 3 years until i became interested in girls and realized it wasnt right. after i said to my mom i didnt need a sitter. we have different but similar situations it seems