Menopause is a great reason to cut the insensitive bulls off, IMHO. When sex is getting more and more difficult and a woman's vaginal tissues are thinning out causing her to be more sensitive, men are getting harder and harder to accommodate, no pun involved. It is disgusting. Middle age men need to hire younger women and middle age women need to stick with cherry popping young guys who've never had sex because they get off a whole lot quicker. Young men who can still cum quick also desperately need older women to teach them how to be better lovers. This a beyond a desperate need for men. It is a desperate need for our sick sexually repressed society in general.