Well I realize that my answer is much later than this question was asked but for anyone reading this my answer is simple. My advise is do NOT marry anyone who you have no real chemistry and passion for. Loving intensely is one of the few magical experiences that life has to offer. To deprive yourself of this emotion and just settling would be a tragic mistake. Someday you will meet 'the one" and it will be such an intense attraction that your marriage will most likely fail. You will never regret not marrying this guy. Trust me. You deserve so much more.