Yea, I know those feelings. Pretty much the same here. But my lips are also pretty inflammed as well. So being on my own and not talking too much is usually the best way to get some rest from the constant discomfort/pain. Pretty f*cked up, but what can you do...
Have you ever tried some kind of moist healing protocol that many are doing now (and some even having had great progress or were even cured or close to cured)? Unfortunately that seems to be the only way (if there even is one) to get better really. There is probably not going to be a cure when you keep peeling your lips, at least I don't think I've heard of even one case.