We have not had sex period. We had planned to wait. Her parents are willing to help her and stuff. I just hate that nothing can work out between the two of us if I don't help take care of it. Maybe not now, but sometime down the road if we stayed together. I will have her check out the website. The only help she has had is with her parents and me. I just feel bad because leaving her is only going to make this harder on her...