Wonderful advice, I would call tough love and every young girl or woman could benefit from it. A learning experience without trauma. I am a man and have always detest men like that. My mother was an exceptional person. My dad was one strong man that loved her and respected her for what she was, a very feisty red head, as me and my brothers did. As teen ager she would come out with these bits of one line advice, never to be repeated, except once. I was tall with a teen age slouch. She tried to encourage me to stand up straight. She finally found the one liner that worked. Stand tall, stand proud. It worked.