Re: Lonely codependent señior mother.

Hi Blue Rose, thanks for reading my post and trying to help me.
To be honest, I don´t know what the problem is. Since my daughter was a kid, she was a very mad kid who always shouted to me. She got worst during adolecense and the last 10 years things have gone worst.She blames me for all her problems. She can´t find a good man because of me.
I think that she got many traits from my ex husband, who was a macho, power oriented dominieering and controlling man.
I might not be perfect but I tried to do my best. Her dad as well as myself come from a dysfunctional families. So we made a dysfuntional family.
What I pretend with this is to break a vicious circle.
About my son, his wife has changed him and he must have his issues as well.
I can´t force them to change or make them do things they don´t want to do.
I have been in a healing process for a long time and I will continue in it.
It is shame that we can´t change others and I humbly accept my powerless in this matter. I will just let God and let go. Tweet