You state: "IF one goes to hell it him not I, do they say - who said this?
No, they would say, for yourself you do not have to worry we do it for you - is that true?"
I have a feeling this is a very important question and I don't want to mess it up by not being fully sure what you are asking. So if I don't answer you correctly, please re-ask a little differently if possible.
But I would like to say that as christians our hearts go out to everyone. Just like Jesus, we don't want anyone to perish.
John 3:16 For God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life
So we try and help one another and lift each other up in Christ, but we are each alone when it comes to the final decision of living our lives pure and holy unto God.
I can't save anyone from hell....only God can and He needs to hear our words and our thoughts/prayers that we desire Him to make a place in our hearts, so that all that comes out of our hearts is Love, Joy, Peace, Patience, Kindness, Goodness, Faithfulness, Gentleness and Self-Control. These are the fruits of the Spirit.
Do you believe it is possible to be all of these things Trust2009? We can't do it on our own you know. Only the indwelling of the Holy Spirit can do this for us....but we must open the door for that to happen...we must welcome it and not suppress the Holy fire of the Spirit. We need to ask for the Bread of Life....which is Christ. Ask for the indwelling of His Spirit.... ask for forgiveness of sins, cast out demons that have made a home in our thoughts....rebuke them in Jesus' name. Send them out into a dry barren land.
Trust2009, have you been dealing with difficult doctors that want to medicate you and take your money? Do you need healing in your head area, as well as your body? Ask God for wisdom and healing if so. Let us pray for you and with you....receive it in Jesus' name. Do you want this? Do you believe?