he won't eat your pussy...that's a problem.

Hey, I get that...guys who want to have their erections sucked off to cllmax but won't lick your clit...that's a problem. The best marriages have both giving head, then sex, then falling asleep together with smiles on both faces. That's what it is all about. When you are giving head, then he sleeps, you're left with fingering your own clit. You spank the monkey, which I don't have a problem with, but if he won't finish you off or even start...you've got to go to counseling. It's that serious.