I have words to share with you, along with my prayers for you and your wife vektek.
First, you need to take the role of a husband who loves your wife as much as Christ loves the church. Sometimes that takes doing things that she is not going to like for her own good and your own.
Let's be truthful here. Your wife does not accept the whole charismatic belief system...this is not just because Hinn is a fallen man. She believes it's of the devil, and since your parents are of that belief system, she convinced you that it was evil and now you don't have a relationship with them. Yet she has a relationship with her family and some are involved in a cult. So what's wrong with this picture?
After witnessing all of this, I am of the opinion that your family is in need of learning forgiveness. (I'm praying for help in this area as well for myself) I'm not saying you have to spend time with your parents if there is something wrong with them....I'm just saying you need to let them know you love them .....and mean it. Leave it at the feet of Jesus and forgive. You are letting the devil pull you and your family into a pit of hell on earth needlessly. Your marriage, your family's health and unhappiness are all symptoms of unforgiveness.
Like you, I love vektek, but unlike you, I'm not putting up with her temper tantrums and walk on eggshells for the rest of my life, here on curezone. I'm going to tell both of you what I see. If people can not tell that in Christ, I actually love both of you, for doing this....then so be it. I'm willing to take the chance in order to fight for the things that make living the christian life wonderful.
You both need together...hand in hand, ask God for forgiveness first. Get rid of this belief system that says you don't have to ask for forgiveness from God our Father for the sins that you do, just because of what He did on the cross for us. You NEED to acknowledge sin and released it. THEN....confess your sins to christian people you trust, if you have a need to. Truly put God first in ALL that you do. What good is it to complain to our christian friends about everything that is wrong and horrible in our lives if we have not gone to God first and asked forgiveness of our sins? There is NO POWER in that.
Please.....I say this because I care and love you both. Stop taking the burdens that are not necessary in taking and give them to Jesus....forever. Nowhere am I saying that many of the TV preacher are not fallen, but I don't hate them. That could be us standing up there thinking we are professing the gospel to the world and we are doing it all wrong....and probably are.
I have no problem warning people about the false beliefs, but we must have the power behind what we know to be true to change what is wrong in the world. Without it, we are nothing but noise. We need God's power, love, forgiveness and much faith to move those mountains that are blocking the son's ray's of light to the world. We can't do that if we are hanging on to our sins.