Re: Does moving away help when there are bad memories?

Funny you should mention that. I moved from CA to MD about three years ago, and ever since I have been toying with the idea of going back to my childhood home... in NJ, just to look around, but I'm afraid it will be depressing.

Part of me wants to see those places again and part of me dosen't. So far, I have made no attempt to go.

This much I know. If I go, I will drive past my first love's house (he is still living there now), and that will probably not do me any good. I might even park near it for awhile dressed in a hat and sunglasses just to catch a peek of him.

OMG. I'm a stalker!

PS. I will wear something besides a hat and sunglasses...I will just use them as a disguise.

Oh yes, and I forgot to mention the most important thing about moving to new places. You meet all new people...and since they don't know you, they don't lock you into your old self. Tweet