The deeper I go into the world of "thoughts are things", the more I learn. I have been helped more that I ever thought I could be with material from Joe Dispenza. I would like to suggest to you that you read his material. He has a new book out titled : "Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself; How to Lose Your Mind and Create a New One". Joe's story is amazing... he healed himself of a broken back with nothing but his thoughts, and has since then studied this field of how our thoughts create our reality. I think you will find his information quite helpful... and he is a neuroscientist, and has much Science to back up what he is talking about. I feel that "The Secret" is kindergarten in the learning process of this, compared to others. Joe Dispenza has helped me to understand how it all works, much more so than The Secret has. There are several itunes podcasts that you can listen to for free of you have an itunes account. Joe has some on youtube too, that will give you a taste of what he is offering. It is not just "think positive"... there is SO much more to it. I wish you the best....