Why ask why? We went over this months ago, didn't we? 2+2=4. We all get old and eventually die. Charlie Sheen will eventually go nuts again on tv. Some things in life are just the way they are. Accept bad sex or no sex was your answer then, why scratch your head (or his) now?
I thought you settled for a life of vibrators and scented oils? Your guy likes the p 0 r n because it's easy, it's always there, it takes little effort. Don't overanalyze why he wants the vixen on the screen over you. Nothing personal...he's just a lazy lay who wants his satisfaction at his beckon call, on his terms, then on to ESPN.com...